In turn, you offered to spot him.Īs time went on, the two of you would bump into one another at the gym and became workout buddies. An attractive guy decided to jump in and help you out. You probably were working out at your gym, doing some random exercises and at some point, realized you needed a spotter. My sense is that you didn’t plan on any of this. We’re going to get into the nuts and bolts of that in a bit, but I want to first address the realities of what you are dealing with. Simply put, the term “straight” is subjective at best. If that sounds like a complicated answer, that’s because it is. In fact, a straight man can fall in love with another man, period. The simple answer to what you have asked is yes, a straight man can fall in love with a gay man. You have a lot going on and so I’ll try to respond to your question as best as I can. I can imagine sending this note was not easy and that it required a lot of courage to write all of this out in the first place.